Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage.

    Doing It Together is about empowering women and men to heal from cultural messages so that they can discover true pleasure and connection in their sexual relationship and marriage. This podcast addresses the common dynamic in a heterosexual relationship in which the wife doesn’t want and enjoy sex and the husband does.Too often, the focus is placed on labels like “low libido” and “low sex drive” without addressing the root issues including physical and emotional safety, shame, porn use, unintentional pressure, lack of emotional awareness, and many others.I’m Janna Denton-Howes, a Relationship Coach and Sex Educator who has spec...

  • Overcoming Years of Silent Tension & Unspoken Emotions - with Chloe | Ep. 128

  • Tim's Journey from Confusion to Clarity in His 30-Year Marriage | Ep. 127

  • "I’m Too Young To Not Want Sex" - with Bri | Ep. 126

  • The Foundations For a Life of Secrecy & Lies - with Jason | Ep. 125

  • The Impact of Shame on Young Women - with Kelly | Ep. 124

  • Overcoming 'Good Guy Syndrome' - with Zack | Ep. 123

  • The Pressure to Perform: Analyzing Sex Scenes in Rom-Coms with Danielle from Sex Ed with DB

  • Breaking the Cycle: Zoe's 30-Year Journey to Reclaim Intimacy | Ep. 121

  • The #1 Skill All Women Need To Increase Their Desire | Ep. 120

  • The Reason Why So Many Women Don’t Enjoy Sex | Ep. 119

  • The #1 Step for Women to Want and Enjoy Sex More | Ep. 118

  • Am I Addicted? Signs of Sex & Porn Addiction and How To Heal - with Dr. Jake Porter | Ep. 117

  • Understanding the Overfunctioning Woman in Love with an Underfunctioning Partner - with Dr. Ashley Southard | Ep. 116

  • Real Couples Share How Doing It Together Changed Their Lives | Ep. 115

  • Answering the Top FAQs About Doing It Together | Ep. 114

  • Meet the Doing It Together Team! - with Janna, Melissa & Justin | Ep. 113

  • Turning Sexual Pain into a Thriving and Joyful Experience - with Sandra | Ep. 112

  • How Men Can Rethink Their Roles To Support Gender Equality - with author Michael Kaufman | Ep. 111

  • Navigating Sex and Sobriety After Overcoming Alcohol Dependency - with Ericka | Ep. 110

  • REAIR: Sex, God & the Conservative Church author Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers | Ep. 109

  • REAIR: How to Trust Your Partner Again After Cheating and Porn Addiction - with betrayal trauma expert Michelle Mays | Ep. 108

  • REAIR: Understanding Pain During Sexual Intercourse - with Pelvic Floor Expert Mandy Röscher | Ep. 107

  • How to Reverse Pelvic Organ Prolapse Naturally - with guest expert Jennie Delreeve | Ep. 106

  • How to Break Free from Autopilot Sex - with Stacey | Ep. 105

  • Answering Your Most Commonly Asked Questions - with Justin & Sandra | Ep. 104

  • Why Having Kids Complicates Your Sex Life and What to Do About It - with Amanda | Ep. 103

  • Why Don't I Enjoy Sex with My Soul Mate? - with Celeste | Ep. 102

  • The Power of Asking “What Do I Need?” - with Heather | Ep. 101

  • Reasons Why the Name of My Program is Changing | Ep. 100

  • Breaking Free from the "Good Girl" to "Good Wife" Expectation - with Crystal | Ep. 99

  • Understanding the Pitfalls of Transactional Intimacy - with Tyler | Ep. 98

  • I Lost My Libido On My Honeymoon - with Emma | Ep. 97

  • Where Did My Libido Go? Overcoming Medical Hurdles & Misguided Advice - with Samantha | Ep. 96

  • The Dual Lives of Men: Investigating the Compartmentalization of Porn Use - with Andreas | Ep. 95

  • Sex Therapist's Son Reveals Untold Truths On Female Desire - With Colin | Ep. 94

  • Why Physical Attraction Doesn't Solve Women's Low Desire - with Kelly | Ep. 93

  • Finding the Right Words After 71 Years - with Nancy | Ep. 92

  • Why Do Women Endure Painful Sex? - with Natalie | Ep. 91

  • Why Is It So Difficult For Men To Believe Women? - with David | Ep. 90

  • Overcoming Betrayal Trauma, Addiction, & Lack of Safety in the Bedroom - with Michele | Ep. 89

  • The Effects of Church Stigma & Hysterectomy on Low Desire - with Raina | Ep. 88

  • Lisa's Journey Through Low Libido and Lichen Sclerosus | Ep. 87

  • Reimagining the Meaning of Safety: A Law Enforcement Officer's Journey - with Kyle | Ep. 86

  • Finding Balance in Faith, Sex, and Inner Guidance - with Laura | Ep. 85

  • A Christian Husband's Journey to Better Intimacy - with Nate | Ep. 84

  • Crossing Cultures: Redefining Sexual Desire in a Dual Heritage - with Thilla | Ep. 83

  • How to Heal from Pornography Addiction - with Justin | Ep. 82

  • How To Talk To Your Kids About Sex - with Christina | Ep. 81

  • Understanding Sexual Consent, Safety & Desire at 70 - with James | Ep. 80

  • Is Wanting It More the Right Program to Help My Low Libido? | Ep. 79

  • The Value of Men Discussing Real-Life Sexual Struggles Together - with William | Ep. 78

  • The Intricate Intersection of Race, Gender, Sex & Desire - with Renee | Ep. 77

  • How to Stop People Pleasing & Speak Up For Yourself in the Bedroom - with Rowen | Ep. 76

  • Why Do Gifts of Lingerie Lower My Desire For Sex? - with Kate | Ep. 75

  • How to Recover Intimacy in Marriage After Betrayal and Porn Addiction - with Sandra | Ep. 74

  • From Confusion to Connection: Empowering Men to Transform Bedroom Dynamics - with Lee | Ep. 73

  • Is It Too Late To Fix My Sex Life at 50?- with Elle | Ep. 72

  • Janna Answers: What If I Don't Feel Anything During Sex? | Ep. 71

  • What Is Intentional Rest And How Do We Get More Of It? - with Dr. Laura Froyen | Ep. 69

  • Vaginismus: How One Woman Transformed Her Intimacy Struggles - with Ellen | Ep. 68

  • Sex, God & the Conservative Church author Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers | Ep. 67

  • The Physical And Emotional Toll Of Infertility On Sexual Desire - With Bridget | Ep. 66

  • How to Ask For What You Really Want in the Sexual Experience - with Crissie | Ep. 65

  • The Right To Say 'No' To Painful Sex - with Anna | Ep. 64

  • Learning to Trust Your Body & the Sexual Experience Again After Miscarriage - with Alyssa | Ep. 63

  • Real Couples Share Their Wanting It More Progress Toward a More Fulfilling Sex Life | Ep. 62

  • Q&A About The Best Program To Help Women With Low Libido Enjoy Sex More | Ep. 61

  • How This Husband Turned Self-Loathing And Guilt Around Sex Into A Nirvana-Like Experience - With Stuart | Ep. 60

  • How To Take Responsibility for Your Own Sexual Pleasure - with Helen | Ep. 59

  • The Secret To Reducing Anxiety About Sex- With Jenn | Ep. 58

  • The Awkward Truth Of Waiting Until Marriage To Have Sex- With Derek | Ep. 57

  • How Saying "No" Can Increase Physical Touch In Sex And Marriage- With Jo | Ep. 56

  • Sex After 60: How to Talk About Sex After Years of Silence- with Diane | Ep. 54

  • Three Reasons Why Foreplay Doesn't Lead to Better Sex (And What Works Instead) | Ep. 53

  • For the Husbands Listening: Top Tips To Be a Better Lover | Ep. 52

  • The Truth About Spicing Up Your Marriage (And Why It Doesn’t Help With Low Libido) | Ep. 51

  • What Men Struggle to Understand About Low Libido in Women (and what to do to improve their sexual experiences) | Ep. 50

  • A Step-By-Step Example of What a Real Married Sexual Experience Looks Like (it's not how it looks in the movies!) | Ep. 49

  • How To Enjoy Better Sex (and understand low sex drive in women) - with Dr. Laura Froyen | Ep. 48

  • How To Let Go of Outdated Messages About Sex in Marriage (and what to replace them with for a happy sex life) - with Charles | Ep. 47

  • How to Trust Your Partner Again After Cheating and Porn Addiction (with betrayal trauma expert Michelle Mays) | Ep. 46

  • How to Revive Intimacy After Two Decades of Marriage - with Joy | Ep. 45

  • How This Husband Supported His Wife to Rewrite Their Sex Life - with Thia's husband, Eugene | Ep. 44

  • Can A Dwindling Sex Life Be Revitalized? How Thia Overcame Sexual Shame And Discovered Orgasm After 40 | Ep. 43

  • Is 'Just Do It' The Only Answer To Low Libido? Unravelling The Truth Behind Women's Sexual Desire- with Amber | Ep. 42

  • What Does Safety In The Sexual Experience Actually Mean? A Man's Transformative Experience Unveils The Answer - with Erin’s husband, Rob | Ep. 41

  • How To Heal From Unwanted Sexual Attention As A Child - With Erin | Ep. 40

  • How To Rewrite Purity Culture Messages About Sex (So You Can Enjoy A Healthy Married Sex Life)- With Keira | Ep. 39

  • Do You Need To Be Sexually Attracted To Your Husband To Have A Great Sex Life? | Ep. 38

  • His Side of the Story - with Nick | Ep. 35

  • Wanting It More After 18 Months of Avoidance - with Sarah | Ep. 34

  • A Love Note To Those Struggling In The Bedroom | Ep. 33

  • What Highly Sensitive (HSP) Women Need In The Sexual Experience | Ep. 32

  • Cultivating a Safe Space for Women - with Melissa Cody | Ep. 31

  • Three Steps To Initiating More Physical Touch With Your Husband (When You Don't Like To Be Touched) | Ep. 29

  • Understanding Pain During Sexual Intercourse - with Pelvic Floor Expert Mandy Röscher | Ep. 27

  • Learning to Find True Pleasure at 41 - with Taneill | Ep. 26

  • How to Know What Advice to Trust and Follow For Help With Low Sexual Desire | Ep. 24

  • Why Feeling Empowered in the Bedroom Can Take Time - with B | Ep. 23

  • Redefining Sexual Connection While in the Trenches of Parenthood - with K & M | Ep. 22

  • Feeling Guilt & Shame About Sex When It Isn’t Our Fault | Ep. 20

  • Why Saying “No Thanks” to Sex Isn’t Easy | Ep. 19

  • Why It's Ok to Never Be "In the Mood" for Sex Again | Ep. 18

  • 3 Steps To Help Discover Your Sexual Preferences | Ep. 17

  • How Toxic Cultural Messaging Contributes to Low Libido in Women | Ep. 16

  • The Reasons Why Marriage Can Lack Emotional & Physical Safety For Women | Ep. 15

  • The Three Requirements For Women With Low Libido to Want It More | Ep. 14

  • The Podcast is Changing, Here's Why | Ep. 13

  • How to Overcome the Shame and Awkwardness of Talking About Sex - with Lisa and Laura Froyen, PHD | Ep. 12

  • Transforming The Sexual Experience Into “Me Time” For More Enjoyment - with Michelle | Ep. 11

  • Redefining Sex as Self Care - with Sonja | Ep. 10

  • How To Deal With Vacation Sex Anxiety - with Lisa | Ep. 09

  • Repairing Marriage After Porn Addiction - with Sherri | Ep. 08

  • Isn't Sex Supposed to Feel Good? - with Lisa | Ep. 07

  • Why Women Have Sex Even When Not In The Mood - with Denice | Ep. 06

  • How is Sex So One-Sided? - with Jenn | Ep. 05

  • How to Share the Truth About Your Sex Life With Your Husband - with Melissa | Ep. 04

  • Finding Sexual Desire After Kids - with Melissa Lynn | Ep. 03

  • Reframing Our Thoughts About Sex - with Laura Froyen, PHD | Ep. 02

  • Welcome to the Wanting It More Podcast! | Ep. 01

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