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Episode 529: His New GF Is Not An Improved Version of You
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Episode 528: Don't Get Stuck Mothering This Grown Man
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Episode 527: Stuck in the Waiting Room of My Life
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Episode 526: It's Time to Lay Down Your Sword
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Episode 525: Communication Confusion
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Episode 524: Super Avoidant Attachment Girl
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Episode 523: Honestly, I'm Leading Myself On
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Episode 522: The Orgasm Gap
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Episode 521: Am I Being Mistreated Or Am I Just Too Sensitive?
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Episode 520: This Sounds Like a Christmas Movie
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Episode 519: My Toxic Ex Still Owes Me Money
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Episode 518: Can't Unhear The Mean Things You Said
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Episode 517: Who Has This Strap On Been In Before?
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Episode 516: You Can't Grow a Relationship In Resentful Soil
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Episode 515: Remembering The Reality, Not Just The Romance
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Episode 514: What To Do With A Professional Crush
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Episode 513: Learn This Lesson Now
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Episode 512: My Boyfriend Cheated And My President Is A Rapist
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Episode 511: Queerness Is Not A Monolith
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Episode 510: Do You Like Emo...tions?
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Episode 509: Sharing A Business With Your Cheating Ex
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Episode 508: Don't Over-Romanticize Your Ex
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Episode 507: You Can't Be Everything To Everyone
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Episode 506: Holding The Good With The Bad
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Episode 505: The Unfair Burden of Birth Control
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Episode 504: I'm Lonely In My Relationship
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Episode 503: Are These Friends Safe For You?
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Episode 502: My Friend Got Dumped..But It Was Her Fault
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Episode 501: You Can Never Be A Perfect Parent
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Episode 500: My Mom's Third Marriage
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Episode 499: My Boyfriend's Proposal Isn't Romantic Enough
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Episode 498: Sexting With My Hot Parisian Tattoo Artist
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Episode 497: Avoiding Relationship Burnout
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Episode 496: You Don't Trust Him Because He's Proven Himself Untrustworthy
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Episode 495: His Ex Still Uses His Netflix
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Episode 494: Parenting Yourself When Your Mother Can't
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Episode 493: Mr. Fix-It Fixes His Codependency
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Episode 492: I Can't Stop Reading Cheating Stories On Reddit
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Episode 491: Dating With A Chronic Illness
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Episode 490: Why Did He Think You Needed To Know That?
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Episode 489: Am I B*tch Or Do I Just Know What I Want?
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Episode 488: Kids or No Kids, What's The Plan?
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Episode 487: Wanting The Wife And The Mistress Too
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Episode 486: If They Like Me, Then Why Can't I See It?
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Episode 485: Single, Again
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Episode 484: Held Hostage By The Past
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Episode 483: You Say Tomato, I Say TomaNO
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Episode 482: Choosing No Love Over Broken Love
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Episode 481: My Friends Are Hanging Out Without Me!
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Episode 480: My Friend Is Marrying Her Abuser
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Episode 479: Dating Across Economic Class
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Episode 478: You Deserve A Love That Thrives In The Light
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Episode 477: Being The Sober Friend
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Episode 476: I Love To See You In My Sweatshirt
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Episode 475: Healing From Harassment In the Workplace
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Episode 474: Bisexual FOMO
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Episode 473: You Will Be Able To Love Again
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Episode 472: Should I End My Marriage After Two Months?
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Episode 471: One Big Pill Or Fifty Spiky Ones
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Episode 470: Into The Unknown! (AKA Dating in Your 30s)
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Episode 469: Riding The Waves Of His Mood Swings
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Episode 468: Accepting Their Scraps Of Love
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Episode 467: I Might Break Up With A Lifelong Friend
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Episode 466: Rock Bottom Stone Top
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Episode 465: I'm Jealous Of A Clown Doll Replica Of My Partner
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Episode 464: Is Getting Married Young A Bad Idea?
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Episode 463: His Bad Behavior Isn't Your Fault
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Episode 462: The 51% Approach
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Episode 461: Broken Up But Not Moved Out
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Episode 460: Will They Do The Vulnerable Work With You?
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Episode 459: My Married Girlfriend Doesn't Know My Real Name
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Episode 458: Your One Wild And Precious Life
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Episode 457: Why Aren't You Telling Her We're Engaged?!
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Episode 456: Supporting Your Partner Through Grief
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Episode 455: He Broke Up With Me Because I Am A Sex Worker
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Episode 454: It's Okay To Break Up With An Old Friend
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Episode 453: Getting Over Someone I Never Actually Dated
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Episode 452: Learning How To Reassure Yourself
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Episode 451: My Boyfriend's Parents Hate Me
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Episode 450: Waiting For My Ex-Fiancé To Come Back
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Episode 449: I Ghosted My Friend For 3 Years
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Episode 448: My Partner Makes Less Money Than Me
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Episode 447: HELP: I Have A Crush On A Couple!
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Episode 446: Healing After Miscarriage
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Episode 445: There Are Lots of Reasons People Get Married
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Episode 443: Making Space For Moving On
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Episode 442: Some Friends You Just Can't Travel With
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Episode 441: It's Not Polyamory If Her Husband Doesn't Know
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Episode 440: Losing Yourself In Your Compassion For Others
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Episode 439: Having Sex On The Fourth Date
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Episode 438: Heteronormative Tunnel Vision
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Episode 437: Regretting That Last Text
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Episode 436: ADHD And My Overstimulating Apartment
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Episode 435: Should I Take A Free Trip To Europe With Someone I Barely Know?
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Episode 434: Your Hurt Deserves To Be Seen
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Episode 433: Undetectable Is Untransmittable
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Episode 432: Is This A Red Flag Or A Real Boundary?
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Episode 431: I Lost The Only Good Love Of My Life
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Episode 430: Play Wordle With Your Own Boyfriend!
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Episode 429: Crying Over Gluten Free Mac & Cheese
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Episode 428: Queer Polyamorous Witch
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Episode 427: Alone In The Woods With A Man Or A Bear
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Episode 426: Cohabitating Isn't For Everyone!
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Episode 425: There Doesn't Need To Be A "Strong One" In The Relationship
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Episode 424: We're Moving In Together & I'm Spiraling!
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Episode 423: Forgiveness Is Morally Neutral
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Episode 422: This Isn't The Ending To Every Story
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Episode 421: Feeling Healed? Visit Your Family.
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Episode 420: My Boyfriend Isn't Curious About Me
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Episode 419: Is It Diabolical Or Totally Understandable?
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Episode 418: Giving Head vs. Changing A Tire
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Episode 417: Can I Fantasize About Women AND Love My Husband?
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Episode 416: I Was Dumped For *Not* Cheating
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Episode 415: Newly Sober and Still In Love
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Episode 414: How Much Meh Is Too Much Meh?
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Episode 413: Your Timeline Is A Valid Desire, Not A Guarantee
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Episode 412: This Is Hard AND You Can Do Hard Things
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Episode 411: Seeking Deep Connection And Coming Up Short
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Episode 410: This Doesn't Sound Like Ethical Non-Monogamy
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Episode 409: Emotionally Immature Coworkers
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Episode 408: My Boyfriend Went To A Strip Club
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Episode 407: From Partners To Platonic Without The Pain
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Episode 406: Watching Someone Younger Make Your Past Mistakes
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Episode 405: Your Anger Is Safe Here
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Episode 404: Complex Grief And The Unfairness of The Universe
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Episode 403: Caught My Boyfriend On Bumble
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Episode 402: Overthinking My Dating App Messages
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Episode 401: Who Taught You Solitude Is Selfish?
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Episode 400: It's Okay To Break Up With Your Nice Boyfriend
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Episode 399: Were My Exes Just Experimenting?
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Episode 398: People Want To Like You
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Episode 397: Reaching Past The Pattern
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Episode 396: Do You Want To Be With a Workaholic?
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Episode 395: Should I Forgive A Cheater?
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Episode 394: My Boyfriend's Not Hot Enough
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Episode 393: Marriage? Been There, Done That, Never Doing It Again
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Episode 392: I Prefer The Caterpillar
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Episode 391: Just Move To South Dakota
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Episode 390: Is It Love Or Love Bombing?
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Getting Ghosted By a Friend
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It's Not Profound, It Just Sucks
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Episode 389: Crumbling Foundation
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Episode 388: You Don't Need To Bubble Wrap Your Hard Edges
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Episode 387: I'm Not My Boyfriend's #1 Priority
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Episode 386: My Partner Is Always On Their Phone
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Episode 385: Is It Really Over Forever?
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Episode 384: Being Reasonably Ready
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Episode 383: Do Not Give This Man A 57th Chance
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Episode 382: Real Or Rebound: Dating After Loss
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Episode 381: You Don't Have To Forgive Your Cheating Boyfriend
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Episode 380: Stable Serious Man VS Wild Bad Boy
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Episode 379: I Feel Bad My Girlfriend Has More Friends Than Me
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Episode 378: I Might Actually Want To Live With My MIL?
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Episode 377: Not Anti-Social, Just Asocial
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Episode 376: How To Trust Your Feelings
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Episode 375: Daddy Issues
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Episode 374: Hi, I Dated Your Ex-Husband
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Episode 373: Dating Is A Practice Of Being Seen
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Episode 372: Wait, Why Weren't You Talking For 10 Days?
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Episode 371: I Accidentally Insulted My Boyfriend's Penis
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PATREON BONUS - Seeking Love and Safety
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Episode 370: Coming Out As Childfree
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Episode 369: My Husband Is Obsessed With A OnlyFans Creator
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Episode 368: Trusting Again After Infidelity
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Episode 367: How To Date Without Settling
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Episode 366: Deep Cleaning Your Relationship
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Episode 365: Your Husband's Coworker Definitely Has A Crush On You
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Episode 364: Empathy Doesn't Mean Losing Yourself
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Episode 363: This Is Textbook Gaslighting
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Episode 362: My Husband Was Depressed All Year And I Had No Idea
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Episode 361: You're Not Alone in Your Loneliness
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Episode 360: I Can't Emotionally Connect with My Mother-in-Law
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Episode 359: Self-Compassion Allows Us to Own Our Mistakes
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Episode 358: A Bunch of One Foot Wells
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Episode 357: Do Breaks Really Work?
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Episode 356: Blocked By My Metamour
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Episode 355: You Don't Have To Hold This Alone
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Episode 354: My BFF Is Marrying Someone I Don't Like
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Episode 353: Having Boundaries Is An Internal Process
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Episode 352: Waiting On A Proposal
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Episode 351: Not All People Are For Us But Some People Are
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Episode 350: Middle School Teacher Drama
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Episode 349: You're Unhappy And That's Okay
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Episode 348: She Has a Crush On Your Husband...What Now?
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Episode 347: He's Either A Hoarder or A Murderer
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Episode 346: My New Boyfriend Has Cancer
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Episode 345: Help! My Partner Is Moving In A Year!
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Episode 344: Morticia & Gomez 4Ever
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Episode 343: Labels Are Just Tape!
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Episode 342: He Is Choosing Someone Who Lit Your Underwear On Fire
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Episode 341: The Vulnerability of Shooting Your Shot
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Episode 340: The Cliché of Heartbreak
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Episode 339: The Emotional Gymnastics of a Yo-Yo Relationship
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Episode 338: Unrequited Crushing On A Friend
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Episode 337: You Don't Have To Talk About Your Abortion
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Episode 336: This Man Is Trash
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Episode 335: Am I Avoidant or Am I Just Unhappy?
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Episode 334: P In V Sex is Not The Only Sex
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Episode 333: Your Growth May Not Help Their Healing
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Episode 332: Crushing On Greener Grass
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Episode 331: Tired Of The "Should We Break Up?" Conversation
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Episode 330: My Husband Didn't Tell His Mom We Got Married
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Episode 329: Believing In Others' Capacity To Grow
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Episode 328: How To Handle Having A Crush on Your Friend
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Episode 327: Is It Bad To Date Someone Who Is "Safe?"
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Episode 326: This Is Confusing Because It Is Confusing
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Episode 325: I Can't Believe It's Not Rejection!
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Episode 324: Haunted By A Ghost of Yom Kippur
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Episode 323: His Silence is Speaking For Him
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Episode 322: Caught In Communication Fatigue
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Episode 321: Exes, Condoms, and A Private Investigator
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Episode 320: Sitting On The Sidelines Together
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Episode 319: Not My Best Friend's Best Friend
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Episode 318: Hook Up With My Ex, Just Don't Lie About It
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Episode 317: Is Marriage A Trap?
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Episode 316: Relationship Escalator to Hell
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Episode 315: Your Queer Love is Holy and Real
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Episode 314: He's a Leo And An Only Child
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Episode 313: Solo Poly Wanna Cracker?
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Episode 312: Becoming A Stepparent
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Episode 311: This AI Doesn't Even Know What Grindr Is
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Episode 310: Keeping Your Friend's Secrets
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Episode 309: Breaking Up As A Game Of Chicken
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Episode 308: Miss Mcfeels-A-Lot
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Episode 307: Letting Go Of A Difficult Love
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Episode 306: The Difference Between A Boundary and A Rule
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Episode 305: Advice for Dating Our Exes
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Episode 304: All Of Our Brains Are Broken
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Episode 303: You Can't Stop Bad Things From Happening
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Episode 302: What We've Learned Over The Past 5 Years
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Episode 301: Right Person + Wrong Time = Wrong Person
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Episode 300: Libido? More Like Libidon't
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Episode 299: Your Efforts Don't Guarantee An Outcome
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Episode 298: When Their Growth Is Too Little Too Late
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Episode 297: Tale of the Broke Bridesmaid
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Episode 296: Spiraling Into The Anxiously Attached Abyss
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Episode 295: Life Is Full Of Imperfect Choices
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Episode 294: Discomfort Doesn't Mean We Are On The Wrong Path
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Episode 293: Is It a Boundary or an Ultimatum?
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Episode 292: Thanks For The Trauma, Mom!
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Episode 291: Self Awareness Is Attractive
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Episode 290: I Don't Want To Have Kids...With You
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Episode 289: Not Awkward Is Not Real
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Episode 288: Love Lost In Translation
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Episode 287: Reversing the Relationship Escalator
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Episode 286: People Need Other People
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Episode 285: Addicted To Their Ex's Instagram
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Episode 284: Is It Your Intuition or Your Anxiety?
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Episode 283: You Don't Have To Act On Those Feelings
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Episode 282: Does He Cosmically Owe You?
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Episode 281: Let FedEx Return That Engagement Ring
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Episode 280: You Can Let Go of That Pressure
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Episode 279: Grief Has No Timeline
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Episode 278: When is Ghosting Not Ghosting
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Episode 277: Love Is Scary!
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Episode 276: When To Let Go Of Hope
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Episode 275: Everyone Knows You're Making Out in the Break Room
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Episode 274: What To Wear When You Run Into Your Ex
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Episode 273: Choosing The Harder Path
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Episode 272: Am I A Homewrecker?
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Episode 271: You're Confused Because It's Confusing
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Episode 270: Their Sadness is Not Yours to Fix
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Episode 269: Hot People Suck
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Episode 268: It's Safe To Believe Your Own Experience
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Episode 267: When Guilt Leads To Self-Sabotage
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Episode 266: Holding Boundaries With Humanity
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Episode 265: It's Okay To Miss Someone Who Hurt You
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Episode 264: Internally Spiraling But Totally Fine
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Episode 263: Stay Off Your Ex's Spotify
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Episode 262: Relationships Are Not Transactional
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Episode 261: How Long Are Our Exes A Part of Us?
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Episode 260: Stability vs. Settling
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Episode 259: Sometimes You Just Have To End It
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Episode 258: Unfortunately the Answer is "Talk About It"
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Episode 257: To Love Something So Impermanent
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Episode 256: Punishment Doesn’t Work in Adulthood Either
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Episode 255: You Can Only Say Your Truth So Many Times
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Episode 254: The Emotional Block-Block-Block
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Episode 253: Good News! You Get to Make Better Choices
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Episode 252: It’s Literally Just… Not That Deep
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Episode 251: Grab a Bucket & Get to Work
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Episode 250: The Plot of Every “L Word” Episode Ever
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Episode 249: Hormonal Hell? I Own A Timeshare There
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Episode 248: Big City Woman Changes Her Mind
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Episode 247: You’re Not Bridezilla, You’re Very, Very Human
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Episode 246: Tropes Are Easy, But They Aren’t Our Truths
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Episode 245: Seasons of Figuring It Out
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Episode 244: Swimming Against the Undercurrent of Gender
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Episode 243: Stop the Resentment Snowball In Its Tracks
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Episode 242: Closure Isn’t Real (But I Still Want Some)
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Episode 241: Now’s a Great Time to Take Care of Yourself
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Episode 240: The Best Revenge is Forgetting
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Episode 239: You're a Catch, a Babe, a Great Time!
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Episode 238: Their Struggles Don’t Outweigh Your Safety
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Episode 237: Their New Relationship is Not Your Failure
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Go To Costco and Get That Candy
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Episode 236: Where’s the Healthy Model for Friendships?!
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Episode 235: The Universe Is Cruel & Chaotic, As Is Dating
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Episode 234: Love vs. Attraction is Apples vs. Oranges
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Episode 233: Their “I’m Fine” Is Not Your “I’m Fine”
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Episode 232: Sex Could Be This Good THIS WHOLE TIME?!
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Episode 231: Thankfully, Your Other Wells Have Water
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Episode 230: Being Alone > Feeling Alone in a Relationship
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Welcome to Just Break Up
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If You’re Not Going To Stay, Make Room For Someone Who Will – An Interview with Yesika Salgado
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Episode 229: Don’t Get Confused by the False Romance of Longing
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Episode 228: What Ifs and The Relationship Multiverse
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When You're Healed You Tell the Story Differently – An Interview with Camonghne Felix
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Episode 227: Give Yourself Permission to Leave
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Episode 226: Relationship Wants vs. Relationship Needs
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Widowhood, Sexuality, and Complicated Grief – An Interview with Rebecca Woolf
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Episode 225: Queer Heaven Has No Gates
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Episode 224: It's More Nuanced Than Good Guy vs. Bad Guy
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Acknowledging the Breakup: An Interview with JP Saxe
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Announcing - There They Are: Breaking the Binary of Pageants
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Episode 223: The Hurt Doesn’t Mean You’re Doing Something Wrong
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Episode 222: Just Because It Looks Easy Doesn’t Mean It Is
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Reframing Consent: An Interview with Leah Juliett
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Episode 221: A Tall Order from an Imperfect Person
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Episode 220: The Ever-Present Confusion of Our Early 20s
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The Meaning of Sex: An Interview with Angela Chen
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Episode 219: Too Much Self-Awareness Can Make Our Tummies Hurt
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Episode 218: This is Not the Horrible Corpse You Think It Is
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Penile Diversity: An Interview with Oscar Montoya
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Episode 217: Are You More of An Ariel or Eric (or… Ursula)?
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Episode 216: As If The Human Experience Wasn’t Hard Enough
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Episode 215: Universal Chillness is Not Your Cross to Bear
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Episode 214: We May Not Have Control, But We Do Have Power
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Episode 213: “Agree to Disagree” Is For Books, Not Lived Experiences
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Episode 212: Doesn’t Your Soul Cost More Than $5?
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Episode 211: Yep, that sucks! And here we go again!
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Episode 210: Tickling My Insecurities
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Episode 209: You might be the toxic one if…
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Episode 208: The Realms of Appropriateness
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Episode 207: Yes, but WHEN do I block him?
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Episode 206: That's Intimacy, Baby!
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Episode 205: You Were Like A Pinball
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Episode 204: A Lot of Boat Metaphors
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Episode 203: It'll Be Crunchy Until It's Smooth
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Patreon Bonus: A Heartbreaking Pickle
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Episode 202: Of Course Things Came Out Sideways!
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Episode 201: Where Are They Now? Pt. 4
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Episode 200: Here's To Another 200 Years!
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Episode 199: I Love Pizza AND My Wife
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Episode 198: Multiple Sexual Apartments
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Episode 197: Not All Podcast Hosts Are For Us
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Episode 196: Sam and Sierra's Rainbow Tower
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Patreon Bonus: Continuing The Conversation
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Episode 195: The Parent Episode
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Episode 194: A Whole Jar of Pickles
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Episode 193: Butt Stuff Is the Trojan Horse
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Episode 192: ALL CAPS WORK EMAILS
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Episode 191: Let Yourself Hear What They're Saying
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Episode 190: Where Are They Now? Pt. 3
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Episode 189: Love Sandwich
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Episode 188: Where Are They Now? Pt. 2
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Patreon Bonus: More Love Songs!
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Episode 187: The Sexisode: Labyrinth of the Labia
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Episode 186: Where Are They Now? Pt. 1
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Episode 185: Sam "Galaxy Brain" Blackwell
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Episode 184: Toxic Positivity Villain
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Episode 183: The Taco Bell of Sex
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Episode 182: The Vulnerability Garden
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Episode 181: Things Will Always Be Weird
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Dating, Self-Care, and Chronic Illness: An Interview with Tonya Ingram
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Episode 180: More Than the Sum of Our Butts
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Episode 179: Sex Is Like Soup
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Relationship Patterns and Working with Friends: An Interview with Trina Olson and Alfonso Wenker
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Episode 178: A Blanket Statement You Can Unpack In Therapy Later
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Accessing Your Higher Self: An Interview with Bunny Michael
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Episode 177: The Introspective Elevator
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Episode 176: Prioritize Your Peace
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Desire and Communication: An Interview with Sex Therapist Casey Tanner
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Episode 175: There's Something Better Out There
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Episode 174: Our Tiny Little Brains!
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Polyamory & Non-Monogamy: An Interview with Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers
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Episode 173: A Band-Aid for a Wound of Insecurity
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Patreon Bonus: Humbled by the Breadth of Human Experience
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Episode 172: Is It Us, or Is It Capitalism?
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Navigating Grief & Cultivating Joy in Partnerships: An Interview with Alyesha Wise and Matthew Cuban-Hernandez
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Episode 171: Traditions Are Just Patterns
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Episode 170: You Deserve to be Caretooketh
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Online Dating & Interracial Relationships: An Interview with Melissa Lozada-Olivia
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Episode 169: Humans Are Faulty
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Episode 168: You Are Infinitely Capable
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Body Positive Dating + Relationships - An Interview with Virgie Tovar
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Episode 167: Let's Destigmatize "Experimenting"
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Episode 166: Normal is Just a Setting on a Washing Machine
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Emotional Maturity + Healing Parental Wounds - An Interview with Dr. Lindsay C. Gibson
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Episode 165: Feelings Happen
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Episode 164: How Are You Cherishing Yourself?
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Episode 163: Returning to the Goo State
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Episode 162: Clarity Makes the Heart Grow Stronger
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Episode 161: There’s No Healthy Conflict On TV
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Episode 160: Cool Bro, Good Luck with Your Parents
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Episode 159: No Brakes on the Love Train
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Episode 158: We’re All Just Sloppy
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Patreon Episode: Trick That Lizard Into Chilling Out
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Episode 157: Aging Into PBS’ Target Audience
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Episode 156: It Doesn't Have to Make Sense to Be True
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Episode 155: Real World Compatibility
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Episode 154: Attraction is Subjective
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Episode 153: Sam’s Not Here to Talk About Genitals
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Episode 152: We’re All Uniquely F’d Up
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Episode 151: Trying to Solve an Unsolvable Equation
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Episode 150: JBU Turns Three!
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Episode 149: Not a World For Naive Idealists
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Episode 148: A Swimming Pool of Success
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Episode 147: All Relationships Are Weird All The Time
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Episode 146: Sam and Sierra Are Fighting
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Episode 145: He’s Just a Dude
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Episode 144: Noted, and Ignored
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Episode 143: Uncomfortable Doesn't Necessarily Mean Unsafe
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Episode 142: You Can't Date Half a Person
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Episode 141: Having a Big Feeling
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Episode 140: Everyone Is Annoying
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Episode 139: The Sierra Sear
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Episode 138: How Do You Block Someone On Linkedin?
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Episode 137: 90% of Human Interaction Hurts
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Episode 136: Hundreds of Small Decisions
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Episode 135: You're Having Two Different Conversations
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Episode 134: You Don't Need Anything Else
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Episode 133: Sam the Time Travelin' Man
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Episode 132: All In or All Out
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Episode 131: Wrestling? Baseball? What’s the Difference?
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Episode 130: Intimacy Is Like Exercise
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Episode 129: The First Pancake Always Sucks
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Invite Those Emotions In (Patreon bonus episode)
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Episode 128: There Is No Normal
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Episode 127: Receive Their Love!
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Episode 126: You Didn’t Betray Yourself
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Episode 125: Recognizing the Complexity
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Episode 124: We're Allowed to Change Our Minds
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Episode 123: Is the Juice Worth the Squeeze?
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Episode 122: A Real Man Would Just Die In His Sleep
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Episode 121: Blocker's Remorse
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Episode 120: The Boring Love Story
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Episode 119: We're All Still Learning
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Episode 118: JBU Middle School
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Episode 117: Does This Feel Good?
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Episode 116: Accountability To The Self
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Episode 115: Who Does This Serve?
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Episode 114: You're Doing The Right Thing
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Episode 113: Navigating The Nuance
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Episode 112: You’re Worth More Than Crumbs
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Episode 111: A Long-Term Waste Of Time
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Episode 110: Don't Abandon Yourself
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Episode 109: Intimacy Isn't Necessarily Compatibility
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Episode 108: People Fall Out Of Love All The Time
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Episode 107: Choosing The Unknown
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Episode 106: Thomas the Train Wreck
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Episode 105: We Have Time to Become More of Ourselves
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Episode 104: A Weak Broth
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Patreon Episode - April 29, 2020 [Gaslighting]
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Episode 103: All Relationships Are Risks
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Episode 102: 2-Year Anniversary Live Show!
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Episode 101: Faith In My Feelings
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Episode 100: And You Can Cook With It!
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Episode 99: We'll Never Love Anyone Perfectly
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Episode 98: You Are Whole, Even As You Become
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Episode 97: Your Boyfriend Probably Has Debt
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Episode 96: White Supremacy and Being Antiracist
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In Solidarity
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Episode 95: There Are No Rules
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Episode 94: Relationships Are Hard Enough Already
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Episode 93: The Rom Com Outcome
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Episode 92: Thanks, But No Thanks
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Episode 91: Just Wake Up
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Episode 90: Emotional Labor
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Episode 89: @Sam's_Muscles
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Episode 88: I Started Dating the Abundance of the Universe
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Episode 87: A Messy-Hearted Adult Baby
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Episode 86: Their Love Is Not Going To Fix Your Life (Live From Oklahoma)
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Episode 85: You're Doing This For You
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Episode 84: Awkward Isn't Real
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Episode 83: Being Young Sucks, I Don't Know Anything
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Episode 82: Trauma Bonding
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Episode 81: A Multifaceted Person Who Routinely Messes Up (Live in Brooklyn)
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Episode 80: Boundaries First
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Episode 79: It's Ok To Breakup With A Friend
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Episode 78: You Are Not Asking For Too Much
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Episode 77: Not All People Are For Me
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Episode 76: AH! There's a Robot in my Bed!
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Episode 75: What Does Trust Look Like?
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Episode 74: The Diet Coke of Dating
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Episode 73: You Deserve Someone Who Wants You
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Episode 72: I'm Unhappy, Bye!
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Episode 71: Divorce is Just Part of Life
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Episode 70: Your Happiness Lies Ahead of You
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Episode 69: Life is Too Short to be in a Mess Like This
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Episode 68: I Want To Be Like Wet Clay (Live from Austin)
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Episode 67: Ghost Boy
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Episode 66: Can You Really Stay Friends With An Ex?
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Episode 65: A New Nipple Hair
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Episode 64: It's Okay To Want More
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Episode 63: Cani Getadate
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Episode 62: Do You Like Me or Like Like Me?
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Episode 61: Choke Me Daddy
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Episode 60: Drunk Texting “I Miss You” on a T9 Phone
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Episode 59: I Wasn’t Being Uncommunicative; I Was In Vietnam for 7 Weeks and Didn’t Have Service
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Episode 58: The FBI Has Seen All Angles Of My Naked Body
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Episode 57: You May Never Know If They Cheated On You
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Episode 56: Come On Voldemort, Let's Go To The Beach
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Episode 55: Destigmatize the Sex Rut
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Episode 54: Live Anniversary Show!
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Episode 53: Making His Life Perfect & Mine a Living Hell!
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Episode 52: He Is Not Worth Erasing Yourself Everyday For a Year
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Episode 51: You Know What To Do
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Episode 50: Romantic Convicts
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Episode 49: Emotional Connection is My Drug of Choice
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Episode 48: The Brain is a Bonkers Place
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Episode 47: A Bit of a Pickle
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Episode 46: Weird Sexual Encounters of the Third Kind
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Episode 45: Dear Ex, I Hope You're In Therapy
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Episode 44: Boom Boom Boom Boom AHHhhAahhhaaa
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Episode 43: Everybody's Dumpable
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Episode 42: When All Your Hard Work Just Doesn’t Work
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Episode 41: Sam's Nightmare, Sierra's Wet Dream
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Episode 40: Frolicking With a Peasant Boy Named Ralph
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Episode 39: This Is Your Heart On Heartbreak
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Episode 38: Totally Not About Butt Stuff
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Episode 37: In Which Sam Attempts to Quote Wayne Gretzky
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Episode 36: Hippie Woo Woo Bullsh*t Self Love Bla Bla Bla #Instagram F*ckin Whatever
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Episode 35: Fluent In The Language Of “Well, He Did It Because...”
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Episode 34: Boy Bye (Pay Us $1000)
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Episode 33: Back in My Day, You Just Poked A Man With A Stick
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Episode 32: An Emotionally Unavailable Kitchen Sponge of a Human
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Episode 31: You Don’t Have To Be Friends With Your Exes
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Bonus Episode: 10 Tips for Surviving February 14th
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Episode 30: How to Not Take Someone Else's Relationship Personally
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Episode 29: Overextending Yourself Isn't Love
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Episode 28: I Don't Trust You But Here Is My Heart
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Episode 27: Pedastool
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Episode 26: Tiny Little Boner in Your Heart
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Episode 25: In What Way Has This Been Great For You
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Episode 24: Fa La La La Block
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Episode 23: Shame Can't Live in the Dark...I Mean Light
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Episode 22: Ghosts Can't Text
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Episode 21: To Know You And Love You So Simply
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Episode 20: Surprise Boner!
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Episode 19: I Wanna Be Happy For You But I'm Insanely Jealous
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Episode 18: Peanut Butter in Bed
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Episode 17: The Word of the Day Is Sustainability
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Episode 16: I Don't Want Your Wishy-Washy Tepid Bullshit
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Episode 15: Let Me Be Great
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Episode 14: It Will Never Make Sense
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Episode 13: I'm Not Listening to the Words He's Saying
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Episode 12: Quit This S*** Girl
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Congratulations Sam & Peter!
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Episode 11: There Are Whole States I Can't Go Back To (with Olivia Gatwood)
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Episode 10: The Relationship Dump
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Episode 9: Affirmation Masturbation
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Episode 8: I Too Have Loved A Tank of Toxic Sludge
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Episode 7: Two Virgins Who Can’t Drive
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Episode 6: Frickin' Robert Frost
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Episode 5: That Butterfly Is Intimacy
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Episode 4: Don't You Know That You're Toxic?
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Episode 3: #BlockBlockBlockBlockBlock
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Episode 2: I Just Unbuttoned My Pants
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Episode 1: Tent Sex
Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)